The Whitney is a great place to spend the afternoon - I could sit and watch the Alexander Calder circus video for hours. I've enjoyed many special exhibits there on subjects ranging from film projects to quilting bees. The permanent collection is definitely worth a look but may not pull you back more than once a year.
Sarabeth's in the basement is a fantastic spot for brunch or lunch! Get the hot chocolate. (Note - it is open before the museum is on weekends)
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