After seeing a few therapist w my man and not finding any that were mutually a good fit (especially his!), i did some research on finding a new one. Saw the review that said Carl was ""for men only"" and figured my man couldn't find fault with that! I didn't expect him to really move ME to change (as am perfect, and MY MAN was obviously the problem...) or provide us both (we now see him together and separately) with actual tools, useful exercises, and resounding sound bites (""ask yourself, 'would you rather be right, or would you rather be happy'"" is one the best to ask ourselves AND EACH OTHER!). A year later I find myself leaning less on him and more on the tools that are now ingrained in me since he lead me to learn them on my own rather than fed me to me like fast food. He is the Bern's of therapy in a world of the Sam Seltzer's norm.
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