This is our first year here, I have a 10 and 4 yr old. Yes, they ask not to watch. From observation, it has alot to do with first time swimmers being afraid and they typically cry that first week. Of course having mom or dad with their face to the glass makes the kids feel worse. I am in session four and my doggie padling 3 ft water only child now can do over and back strokes confidently in 8 ft water. We have been fortunate I guess because all our instructors are very patient and kind. Remember, they are there to teach your child to swim, not splash around and coo at them. My only wish is that the fee be a bit lower but again, I have two strong swimmers that are eager everyday to return.
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