I wrote this last May, when the tryout season began:\r
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I wanted to share why my daughter cheers at Team Illinois Cheer. Could she go to a big fancy gym and become but a number? Sure. Better yet, I could pay more money, get less competitions and essentially just become a dollar sign.\r
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Or, we could chose to be part of a true family. A mom and dad that started a gym for their daughters and every day, win or lose, give their hearts and soul to that gym. A gym that one of the daughters dreamed about being a part of when she cheered for our local high school. 10 years later her dream is still a reality, and I am so grateful.\r
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My daughter tries out for her 5th year tomorrow. And the growth as a person I have seen in her because of this sport, and these people - that is what I want for her. She has been on successful teams, and not as successful teams. She has learned it is not about the size of the dog in the fight, but the size of the fight in the dog. She learned about giving back by becoming a Jr. Coach and having an impact on new, younger cheerleaders. All of these things will remain when the jackets are too small, the uniform no longer fits and the ring isn't shiny. What she is learning isn't just for the now, it's for the many tomorrows I hope she has on this earth. When she is a successful team player and leader in life - I will be able to point back to the time she spent at this ""little"" gym known as ""TI"" and thank God we found it.\r
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Our coaches won the ""Leadership Through Sportsmanship"" Award at the Worlds Competition. How amazing that they are recognized by their piers in the industry as standing out because of their sportsmanship.\r
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So as other parents fret about the placement of their children, making sure ""they get on a winning team"", making sure they are at the ""highest level"". I stay calm, knowing my child is already part of a winning team - no matter what the score sheet says. My child has already won so much because of this gym.
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