The night turned ugly when one of the servers attending to a table began pushing extremely hard to get through the crowd. She pushed several people in my presence including me. And this was not a slight bump that occurs when someone passes you in a crowded setting, this was a hard full-on pushing with deliberate uncalled for contact. I said something to her initially but she ignored me until I pushed her back, after yet another intentional, unwarranted physical contact from her, and understandably she was upset. She vocalized her anger and I had no remorse. I asked her if she thought it was ok to continually push me and her response was that I was in her way. Obviously the words excuse me or pardon me were not in her vocabulary. When I told her she should have said something instead of put her hands on me she walked away.
Unbeknownst to me, she reported it to a bouncer who came over and asked me why I pushed the young lady and I explained the situation to him. His response was not that I was in the wrong for pushing the waitress back, but rather that I should not have stood in the place where I was standing (close to the bar). I told him there were no signs to tell me that this was a pushing zone or that patrons standing there are at risk of being assaulted. All the waitress had to say was ?hey guys, could you please clear this area? and we would have happily obliged. Realizing that he was not talking to a moron who would be intimidated he got aggressive and came too close to my face, close enough for me to smell his dinner. This was offensive contact in my book, so I called him an __hole. He told me I could leave if I didn?t like it and I told him I would gladly leave after speaking with the manager. He tried to usher me out with his body and told me speak to the manager at the door. Of course, I refused.
Pros: Visually Appealing
Cons: Crowded, Watered Down Drinks & Unprofessional Staff
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