One of the biggest problems of any healthcare facility, hospital or nursing care, is that everyone's expectations are unrealistic. Staffing levels are way too low for care giver to patient ratio (sometimes 1 to 12 or more). There has been so many cuts in reimbursement that there isn't enough to cover the thousands it costs to give the care that is needed or deserved. Most families or residents have unreal expectations that they are going to get close to one on one care. Good efforts are put into trying to make it a home away from home. Imagine having 100 people you had to give medicine to, take to the toilet, shower, clean and cook for as well as finding hobbies or activities to keep them happy. I can tell you that many will need the toilet at the same time, want showered at different times, not like how you made their food and want something different while you are trying to help the one that, and god forbid, might be having a medical emergency. You would be in a sour mood too. Not because you are a bad person, and some might be, but you're only a human being trying to make everyone happy and failing at it cause it's impossible. Most of us struggle trying to keep our own family happy! This care costs thousands, most can't afford it, and yet they are taken in and cared for when their families cant, or they have no one. I don't doubt there are some issues, and I don't doubt that efforts are made to say thank you for the hard work. Times are tough and most struggle to make ends meet and these businesses are no different. We need to stop being so critical and get back to being thankful for what we do have - whether its a job to complain about or people and places to complain about that take care of our loved ones so we can go to the job we complain about to pay for the bills we complain about. Where would you or they be otherwise?
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