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I found early options online, it was the first link that I clicked. I read all the reviews and read through all of the website. I can't possibly recommend or have imagined a better place for a woman to go to during such a tough time. ALL of the staff were truly amazing, caring, patient, kind, and compassionate. I also went to a clinic out of state (this happened to me over the holidays and I was visiting my family in the Midwest). I was mortified when I walked into the other clinic. It felt dirty, the waiting room was full, there were protestors outside, and there was no privacy. Yes, it was cheaper. But I would have paid triple for the experience I had at Early Options. I went three times in total, and saw both doctors on staff- both were incredible. I am almost in tears thinking of how grateful I am. This was the hardest decision of my life, and the toughest three weeks that I can remember. I am 35, and there were so many thoughts going through my head. I am a smart, successful, emotionally stable women. But sadly, the father wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy. So I had a huge decision to make- do it alone, or terminate and hope for a better experience down the road. Ultimately, after 3 grueling, torturous weeks, I finally came to the decision to terminate via the aspiration method. I was between 6-7 weeks. I was given a painkiller and asked for valium (because I was very nervous). It was more painful than I had expected, but I don't think the painful part of the procedure lasted more than 60-90 seconds. I can't really describe the pain I felt, because it wasn't like pulsating cramps, it was more of a persistent/constant very painful cramp that didn't pulsate or contract. Once it was over the pain persisted but on a much, much smaller scale. I used the bathroom afterwards because they said releasing the pressure from my bladder may help. And it did. I am home now and have been on my couch pretty much all day. I have had minimal spotting and barely any pain, just very slight cramps. I was very lucky and blessed because they told me my pregnancy wasn't actually viable anyway. Apparently there was no heartbeat and they said there was minimal tissue so not much was seen and I would have likely miscarried naturally. I can't tell you how relieved I am on so many levels. For anyone going through this, please know that you are not alone, that this happens to all varieties of people, that mistakes happen, that you must do what is ultimately going to be best for you and for your future. This has been quite an experience for me, one that I have learned so much from. I never in my life would have thought I'd have an abortion. In fact, I just had a conversation with a girl friend a few months ago, telling her if I got pregnant at this point in my life that I would definitely have it. You just never know until you are in that position. So please don't let anyone influence you beyond what you are comfortable with. And if you decide to have an abortion, continue to read all oft these rave reviews. Early Options exceeded my expectations and I am sure it will do the same for you.
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