Patrick & Janet:
Pat & I joined Great Expectations/Charlotte at the same time. Neither one of us had dated anyone else in the service, and were each other's first dates after becoming members! From the first moment I saw him crossing the parking lot on our firt date, I knew and said to myself, "oh yes, this will work". I wil not say that there haven't been any rocky moments, but through it all we have come out the other side together. As we were fixing dinner tonight, we were talking about the great deal of time that we spend together and what each of us does that bugs the other. His response was that I tend to wait until he gets upstairs before I ask him something and he has to come back downstairs to find out what i said (we live in a tri-level house). He could not come up with anything else or at least he was not admitting to anything else. He says he "is happy". My complaint about him is that he doesn't talk enough and when he says something is right, that is it. I get frustrated because even when I know that I am right about something, I kinow that there is no point in arguing because I know that i am not going to win. I may find this difficult at times but I know how much he cares and I certainly have made it clear how I feel about him. I regard him as a gift and I do not hesitate to tell him as much. Life has been an interesting journey for me, and Great Exectations was only the beginning of one of the most importatnt blessings in my life.
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